For Goodness Sake!

The amount of craziness I have seen exhibited by some blog visitors has prompted me to start moderating comments. Some of you need to CALM DOWN.

First and foremost, Ms. Ebo's picture was used to show my point (made earlier) that some girls were wearing really short dresses (or shirts as dresses). I only used it because she can be seen pulling her dress down in the picture obviously to protect herself from a wardrobe malfunction. Which is apparently "what any decent, and sane lady would do if she was lap dancing a dude with a dress on" (seriously, who wrote that?).

If I had received any other pictures showing a girl in a very short dress pulling her dress down then I would have used it. This is not a personal attack. I do not know Vanessa and I do not care who she is. Whatever drama she has been having in her life culminating in me receiving this picture--does not concern me! So whoever wrote, "o venessa im guessing u took the dude she had an eye for and she almost killed herself" can rest assured that this is not the case.

For people fixating on the part in the post where I mention driving to the reunion and money to buy well fitting dresses...again this was directed at people who actually drove to the reunion and then wore shirts as dresses.

I find it amazing that people are getting fixated on this picture. THERE ARE OTHER PEOPLE SHOWN ON THIS BLOG. There are the unfortunate dancers from a couple of posts, some blonde weaved lady, other people with real reason to be annoyed because I SPECIFICALLY called them out. The only comment I made concerning Ms. Ebo was that her hair looks nice. This blog isn't about YOU Vanessa, its about the Nigerian Reunion and stuff that happened there--don't flatter yourself. Nobody would know who you were if you hadn't put your name on blast here.

For the brilliant person who wrote: "I will have your website shut down if you keep posting falsified and fabricated information about this young lady. Trust me, i pull major strings. Have a good day."
Please explain the "false and fabricated information" about Ms. Ebo? These major strings you pull are they connected to the stick shoved far up your a**? Cos it needs to be pulled out.

Ms. Ebo I really don't understand why you had to come and put your name on here and then bring your "attack squad" to keep commenting as if this is some sort of "e-girlfight". This wasn't about you! (or Rasheed for that matter). If your friends recognized you then you could have explained how much of a "bitch" I am to them and ended it there. Now you have your full name on here so that if you ever get Googled this will pop up. Good job.

As one of the "wise Vanessa defenders" said "word of advice,Vegas is over....quit being bitter and move on..." perhaps its time for some of you to look through your Facebook privacy settings and check what you are sharing with the world. I am just a symptom of a bigger problem--Facebook gone wrong!

Thank you all for entertaining me this weekend.

29 Comments:

Anonymous said...

I endorse this entry.

Anonymous said...

well spoken

Anonymous said...

Tsk tsk much ado over nothing

Anonymous said...

Actually when you google her it doesnt show up. But I do see she was an ASA secretary. lol.

Anonymous said...

lol @ E-girlfight..people dont like it and maybe they just want it taken down. Its that simple...and whether she put her name out there are not people are gonna see her on facebook or someone is gonna tell them her name.

Anonymous said...

look ho just take it down because when every one find out who you are your not going to love your life at all

Anonymous said...

U still sound ugly tho lol!

Anonymous said...

this blog is funny

Anonymous said...

Lol @ Anon from 10:36pm...give Google some time.
@ Anon from 10:41pm, I'm gonna agree with the blogger, the other posts didn't have many entries but Vanessa made this a big deal now random ppl are coming to the blog and actually reading it. I found out about the blog on Tuesday, but didn't pay much attention. Then today I heard about all the madness going on. When I came and saw all that stuff I was surprised!

Anonymous said...

lol @ above...give google time?? Its the Internet it doesnt need "time" dude..the blog been up for a while..

Anyways, I actually didnt see vanessa's comment till the second time I read it but why shouldnt she defend herself..obviously a lot of ppl dont like it so thats what happens...whether she commented or not ppl still would have said their piece

Anonymous said...

I too endorse this post! Seriously, why did the girl advertise her name? How dumb do u have to be? Common- she's an idiot for that!
What she SHOULD have done is - when she found out, email the blogger and simply ask to remove the picture. She could have said that someone stole the pic- and for career/personal reasons she doesn't want it to be up on the site.
But no! She had to do typical naija big girl frontoin style and stupidly added her name to the picture.
Brainless, twat!

Anonymous said...

Whether she added her name or not people were going to find out who it was...I mean seriously stop acting like the Naija community is soo big that if you wanted to know you couldnt figure it out. People always act like you know the best option of handling a situation but when your being singled out it sometimes doesn't work out that way. P.S. If this is a blog about short dresses why aren't there other pictures of females??? Just her..

Ness.E said...

OKAY. THIS WHOLE BLOG HAS GOTTEN WAY OUT OF HAND, UNDERSTANDABLY ITS PARTIALLY MY FAULT, BUT I FELT LIKE I NEEDED TO DEFEND MYSELF IN THIS CASE...I DIDN'T ASK PEOPLE TO COME TO MY DEFENSE AND DEFINETLY DIDNT RECRUIT AN "ATTACK SQUAD" AS THE BLOGGER PUTS IT. BUT THANKS FOR THE HAIR SHOUTOUT! AS FRIENDS HEARD ABOUT IT AND QUESTIONED ME OF COURSE IM GOING TO TELL THEM WHATS GOING ON. THE MAIN THING IM HEARING WHETHER OR NOT IT WAS THE BEST IDEA TO PUT MY NAME OUT THERE, ITS OVER AND ITS OUT THERE. WHY ARE PEOPLE STILL DISCUSSING WHETHER IT WAS SMART TO DO IT OR NOT.. BEFORE I EVEN DID PEOPLE WERE HITTING UP LIKE CRAZY SO EITHER WAY IT WAS GOING TO GET OUT. THE BLOGGER AND OTHER PEOPLE CLAIM I DID IT TO PLAY "BIG GIRL" BUT IT REALLY HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THAT..I ALWAYS FEEL LIKE ALL THIS BLOGGING AND SHIT TALKING IS FOR KIDS AND IF YOU WANT TO SAY SOMETHING TO ME THEN JUST SAY IT TO ME. TO FRANK'S ADVOCATE, YOUR TALKING ABOUT HANDLING THIS ONE-ON-ONE, BUT THERES A 99% CHANCE YOUR IN THE UK AND IF NOT YOUR IN D.C. SO IM NOT SURE HOW THATS SUPPOSED TO TAKE PLACE BUT IM GAME...LOL. NEVER DID I MAKE EMPTY THREATS OR E-THREATS..I SIMPLY SAID TO THE GENERAL PUBLIC "IF YOU WANT TO TALK, HOLLA AT ME" ITS AS SIMPLE AS THAT. I'VE ALREADY LET MY FRIENDS KNOW TO STOP ENTERTAINING THIS B.S. BECAUSE ITS NEVER GOING TO END. THIS WILL BE MY LAST COMMENT SO FEEL FREE TO GO CRAZY! FOR THE GIRLS TALKING SHIT, CONTINUE. EVERYONE IS ENTITLED TO THEIR OPINION AND FOR THE GUYS CLAIMING THEY FUCKED IN EFFORTS TO MAKE ME LOOK LIKE A WHORE CONTINUE AS WELL. I THINK I'VE LITERALLY BEEN CALLED EVERY NAME IN THE BOOK SO FAR SO THERES NOTHING ELSE THAT CAN SURPRISE ME...EITHER YOU THINK THE PICTURE IS DISTASTEFUL AND IM SOME KIND OF SLUT OR YOU DON'T GIVE A FUCK AND REALIZE I WAS HAVING A GOOD TIME. EITHER WAY THIS IS MY LAST COMMENT AND LIKE I SAID...I DONT NEED ANYMORE DEFENDERS OR PEOPLE WHO DONT KNOW FRANK TALKING SHIT TO HIM IN MY DEFENSE...TO ME IT'S OVER. THANKS TO ALL THE PEOPLE WHO HAD MY BACK THOUGH!! :) *Sorry for any spelling errors*

What the heck? said...

I approve this post. I actually sat down and read all 72 comments and I came to the conclusion that this Vanessa chick is quite silly. Who puts their name out there on the internet? Chick brought all the drama to herself.
And for all those so-called supporters of hers calling you a hater, the hell? If Nigerian girls don't stop with this 'hating' madness ehn. Looking at the picture, I wasn't too sure what you were supposed to be hating on. Bunch of idiots.
One idiotic one talking about she pulls strings. Binch please, the only strings that you are pulling is the one on your tampon so sit the fcuk down abeg!
Blogwriter, you are doing a good job. Keep it up, if these dumb characters wanna come and expose who and who they slept with in the last 12 months then that's their cross to bear. Kudos to you o jare.

FrankGzee said...

This whole situation could have been avoided, it is quite ridiculous that Vanessa would put my name on this blog to slander me; the irony of the matter is you failed to deal with the issue and resorted to calling your sister and friends to incite hate on me. If you are really trying to put your business out there in the public say it how it is. I was forced to engage in this tit for tat nonsense because you put my facebook name out on blast. Vanessa if you know me, that holds no weight, that is not even my full name, so if these are your efforts to put me and yourself on the same playing field, your attempt has been futile. Obviously you got your cronies to come on a blog site and say all kinds of unfound allegations. Talking about another man's genitals and in the same breath you want respect, you want to be considered a lady? Do you not realise for people to be talking about you in such a negative light that you definitely must be doing something wrong....check your self, remember that me and you were not talking earlier this year, remember how we continued to talk. All this talk about one night stands and marriage baffles me, I do not know when that discussed. Considering the year you have had, I would think you would lay low and not be involved in such petty issues, don't get all sensitive on me when I say I was there for you through your whole mourning process, both when you were in the U.S and when you flew to Nigeria. Get yourself away from all these 'yes-men'.

I refused to address this situation last night, if you observed I used the opportunity to promote my MySpace that I do not use and also my friends MySpace. An intelligent person would have observed that I was not interested in this back and forth barrage of abuse.

Also all these comments about your ugly or people going to put hands on each other??? Is this really over the picture or is there a situation I do not know about?
Do not get it misconstrued I hope this issue has been addressed.
I am a Media/ I.T major from the U.K
Right now am working with a private contractor/ consultancy agency
If you have any queries you can contact me
frankygzee@hotmail.com

Sasha Fierce said...

Wait o, Frank aren't you the same person who just posted about cumming all over her saggy tits? If so, then you absolutely deserve whatever people called your name. And if you aren't then sorry for the misunderstanding.

Anonymous said...

@5.29AM This blog is clearly not about dresses, its about the reunion, dumbass. Lmao, too many idiots using the internet with only their fingers and half their brains. And puh-lease stop talking about all this finding crap. If the girl hadn't put her name out there, told all her friends and relations, no one would have given a flying fuck who didn't know her. Its the height of narcissism when people think they actually warrant searching out on the internet. Its the height of ignorance when people justify bad decisions with "it would have happened anyway."

FrankURlow said...

@ Frank- man u are a fool! I think Vanessa is a fool for putting her name up there but you're an even bigger fool and idiot for writing that very personal message on a public forum. Really, mentioning that you helped her through her mourning process and about her traveling to Naija-for real, why must u put her biz out there.
If you were the true friend u claim u were u would not put the message that u just did.
It's clear you did it only to project the image of the "nice guy" . Nicca please! Pathetic attention seeker.
Again, I DO NOT KNOW THE GIRL, I am NOT her friend- I think she's crazy to have mentioned her name -but u Frank are low scum bag- trying to use someones mourning as a way to promote yourself. Nonsense.

Anonymous said...

FRANK- must u tell the whole world that she had a rough year???!!! WTF is wrong with people. Frank, u must really be shameless- mentioning to the world u helped her...ya right-u have helped by contributing to the drama on this blog- olodo!

Teni said...

Why are you guys vexing for Frank? Shey Vanessa came and kukuma put his and her business on the streets; talking about he tried to talk to her etc etc. Both of them are wrong and they should reap the consequences.
Meanwhile, I see Frank is based in DC. Hahahaha, I will be sure to tell my homies to stay away from any boy named Frank Agu.

Anonymous said...

Kai, internet na bastard sha... all you people creating drama for yourselves, you will wish in 5 to 7 years that you didn't involve yourself in such BS, just ask the now almost 30something yr olds who showed out during and after Detroit, Miami, Houston...

Anonymous said...

aint it funny how a girl b acting like she love a nigga then all of a sudden he is a scum, bloggers, e-thuggers are missing the point, the girl embarrassed herself with the forever 21..all these people going at frank are missing the point...the bitch put his name out there which does not make sense because the guy was not even at the reunion and from what i know she was the one who told him about this blog

Anonymous said...

Old Papa/Mama (Comment above).. please expand.. wetin happen during the stone age?? LOL.. soo.. babes never marry cuz dem rubbished themselves at the reunion??

Anonymous said...

u're obviously a friend of this so called Frank regardless of if he was at the reunion or not...my friend scroll up and see the first comment he put on there about cumming and all that shit..so he started dis crap first...granted she called him out and put him on full blast but who wouldn't considering how demented and heartbroken he sounded. anywayz the nigga sounds like a chic tho he prolly a hermaphrodite lmaoo...

Anonymous said...

No publicity is bad publicity I guess...God grant us wisdom...

Anonymous said...

Amen

Anonymous said...

help*

Anonymous said...

U SEE THIS BULLSHIT...NAIJA BABES ARE JUST STUPID AND EXTREMELY JOBLESS...EVENT THAT HAS PASSED, YOU BROUGHT IT BACK ON THE NET, INSTEAD OF DISSCUSSING HOW WELL IT WENT...ITS TALKING ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE....SO DISGUSTING...

Y'LL NEED TO GROW THE FUCK UP AND i AM GOIN TO REPORT THIS BLOG AND GOD HELPS THE OWNER WHEN UR CAUGHT....WE WILL FIND YOU AN APPROPRIATE JOB INSTEAD OF BLOGGING....NAWAO..

Anonymous said...

lol, 1:26AM what's with all the caps? This post isn't even about any event, what are you talking about? Sha, you came on the blog so you must have been looking for something yourself and i'm guessing you didn't find it or you wouldn't be screaming like a crazed person here. Or maybe you did lmao! Stop yelling at the blogger, abeg. Which razz place are you from that people don't discuss past events and laugh at the foolishness that happened? Please!